your probably going to read this and think oh this is just some immature teenager, but im really not. just put yourself in my situation and tell me what you would do, please.
some adults say that teens don't know what love is, and sometimes i think they are wrong and sometimes i think they are wrong. i'm just so confused right now.
i'll start off by saying that im 15 and have a boyfriend that ive been with for 4 months, but we were "together" but not officially for about a year before that. and i stuck around through alot of crap that he put me through because i was sure i loved him. well now after being together he has his jerkish times and sometimes his sweet times. and i give up alot to be with him.
but just recently, an ex, that i became best friends with, and i have shared our feelings for eachother and i cant help the way i feel about him. hes a really good sweet kid and he says he regrets breaking up with me in the first place and i know im just a teenager and i shouldnt be worring about this kind of stuff but i really cant help it. is it possible to love two people? if so what do you do about it? please some advice.
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Re: im a teen who needs some advice.
Dec 22, 2008 1:41 PM
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First off, I would like to tell you that although you may be off topic here, it was a good move to solicit the opinion of adults, especially parents. My advice? Talk to your parents. If they are not there, talk to an adult who you think genuinely has your best interests in mind. I also suggest talking to teachers and guidance counselors at your school. Take their advice into consideration. Ultimately however, the decision is yours. If I were you, I would choose the one who cares for me the most. I would also choose the one who has a better job, or does better in school, has a good relationship with his brothers/sisters, the one who you can see is happier in life. Make sure you put an effort in getting to know more about them both too before you decide and get too deep into a relationship. Once you have done all of these things I'm sure the decision will be easier to make. I wish you luck with your problem and may you also have a Happy Holiday! -- "Mother is God in the eyes of a child." Please visit http://instantamber.com/news/ for more updates. |
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Re: im a teen who needs some advice.
Nov 1, 2008 7:54 PM
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 im not even going to lie about these it not werid to love two people, but you have to ask your self this who do you love more your ex or your boyfriend. i know its hard but you will get through this just really think and you"ll get it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! XOXO mylove |
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Re: im a teen who needs some advice.
Sep 15, 2008 5:08 PM
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Sep 2, 2008 11:00 AM
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Welcome lalala, This forum is for people to discuss safety issues on social sites like MySpace and Facebook, and it’s my job to keep the talk on topic. That said, I think “love” represents many emotions and attitudes, from the affectionate “love” we feel for a best friend to the intense “love” (often infatuation, in my experience) we feel for someone we have a strong physical attraction to but not much else. Anyway, I hope my two cents help! Come back if you'd like to discuss safety topics. Good luck,
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Re: im a teen who needs some advice.
Sep 2, 2008 10:54 AM
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Hi hon.
I'm a mother of someone your age and I once was your age. I will not belittle your feelings and say that a teen doesn't know what love is. I will tell you that your brain is still growing right now & learning how to make decisions. EVERYTHING seems way more important at 15.
From what you have said about the current guy, you need to move on. Regardless of whether you have a back up guy or not. From what you've said he is not treating you as he should. & regardless of your age, no woman deserves to be treated poorly. And if your dropping time you would spend with other friends to spend with this guy, that is not good. I also will suggest that you continue to be friends with the other guy. Once you get out of a relationship it is never a good idea to jump right back into one. Because 9 times out of 10 that relationship will fail. This goes for adults as well as teens. Always remember to be yourself & completely yourself. Live your life, have fun with your friends & remember ur a special, awesome person & should only be treated as so.
Hope this helps!
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im a teen who needs some advice.
Aug 30, 2008 11:00 AM
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your probably going to read this and think oh this is just some immature teenager, but im really not. just put yourself in my situation and tell me what you would do, please.
some adults say that teens don't know what love is, and sometimes i think they are wrong and sometimes i think they are wrong. i'm just so confused right now.
i'll start off by saying that im 15 and have a boyfriend that ive been with for 4 months, but we were "together" but not officially for about a year before that. and i stuck around through alot of crap that he put me through because i was sure i loved him. well now after being together he has his jerkish times and sometimes his sweet times. and i give up alot to be with him.
but just recently, an ex, that i became best friends with, and i have shared our feelings for eachother and i cant help the way i feel about him. hes a really good sweet kid and he says he regrets breaking up with me in the first place and i know im just a teenager and i shouldnt be worring about this kind of stuff but i really cant help it. is it possible to love two people? if so what do you do about it? please some advice.
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