My 23 year old daughter seems to like being with my mother in law ( who lives close to us). I hurt terribly, as I have always loved my daughter but sometimes wonder if it isn't genetically passed down. You see my mother in law disliked her own mother. So could my daughter possibly have inherited genes from her paternal grandmother that make her dislike me ? My mother in law loves being in cahoots with my daughter-is it because she likes someone like herself as she hated her own mom? They are both very smart people.