My 22 year old is now getting tattoos and body piercings. She recently left home and is on her own. She is a good kid, but seems like she does the opposite of what I tell her. Seems like she does things to intentionally hurt me. Her dad does or says nothing. She adores him. I have given up my life, my career for these kids, spent my life devoted to them. Now every time I talk to my daughter I feel like the worst mom in the world. I know I am not, but I feel that way.

Any advice?