"Second Life" is NOT Teen Safe!

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[As posted to the comments to Second Life why my son, 15 yrs old, was canceling his account]

My son "Red Dae" was approached by TWO different ADULTS on his second visit. When he complained to one of your adult monitors, he was banned from Second Life. The monitor refused to listen to my son, claimed he was paranoid, and denied that his contact with adults in Teen Second Life was real. Already feeling emotionally violated, your monitor made matters worse, obviously caring more about Second Life's profits (via their paying perv adult members) than a child's well being.

My son returned to Second Life to show me what had happened, and that same "black & white" robot was still in the "Welcome" area. Apparently she did not see us pop back in because she was talking with 3 other adults about my son's interaction with her. Within a minute though, they all saw my son's character standing right there, listening to every word, and the other 3 quickly vanished. NONE of those 4 had "Linden" as a last name to identify them as adults, all were posing as teens. In my son's rage and anger, he used the f-word a few times. Then a Linden-named "mediator" appeared and without the slightest attempt at seeing what the issue was, he kicked my son off. Later we received an email stating he was kicked off for violating the usage agreement. Apparently the usage agreement says you can't swear, but says nothing about being a perv adult hitting on kids, so therefore they don't take any action against them.

So, the reason my son (and I) will NEVER use or recommend this crapware application and environment is because...

1. They have proven that they support and DEFEND the hidden adults in the teen area.

2. Refuse to listen to teens with real issues and complaints. There is NO LEVEL OF ANY SECURITY to protect the kids.

3. Further increase a child's trauma by telling them they are paranoid, and what happened didn't, so as to PROTECT the abuser and label the child as a liar.

4. Lie to each other about what really occurred to cover their own ass, thus spreading lies about the child... c'mon, how cold and callous do you have to be to do that?!

5. To test Second Life's security, I have logged on 3 times, an adult freely able to chat and interact with teens on any topic; proving my child's accusations about the ease of pervs using Second Life to chat with kids. Not only is it EASY, but it allows for adults to buy huge portions of land and build private "homes" for private conversations, and to build places for teen amusement and attraction. Second LIfe is perv heaven!!


Posing as a teen, I still have some land in the teen area and will be building on it as the focus and experiment for an article in a major magazine about child care and safety. I thank my son for bringing Second Life to my attention. My editor believes this will be a huge awakening for parents, as well as for our naive teens, and I expect it to be the source of numerous safety articles about similar web-based games in the future.

My son, nor any of our friends and relatives, will ever be on here unless it is to assist me in my research and exposing all of the dangers of your site to children for a national publication.
Last Post Aug 26, 2009 2:43 PM by: Erwin Lionheart
Erwin Lionheart
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Registered: 8/26/09
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Re: "Second Life" is NOT Teen Safe!

Aug 26, 2009 2:43 PM
i would like to join your articles because the same happened to me an adult came up to me a man and a woman and started asking me for sex then they kept making me follow them and tried to make me lie on a sex bed then they ask for my address asking me if i wanted real sex and when i said no they kept saying if i didnt tell them my address and have sex with them they would report me so i reported them and got kicked from second life for 3 days so i would like to join you in helping teens realise the dangers of second life even though i am only 13 i have witnessed alot of this stuff happening to everyone.
onlinegamerobot
Posts: 1
From: florida
Registered: 5/29/08
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Re: "Second Life" is NOT Teen Safe!

May 29, 2008 6:59 AM
thank you for posting this message
as i once was a victim since when you get on that game you start getting addicted and soon you get
caught for example i had so much money and friends then some spanish people started talkingto me and the next day
i got a call from a totall stranger,
i prayed to god that they wont come
Anne
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Registered: 6/26/06
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Re: "Second Life" is NOT Teen Safe!

Dec 9, 2006 9:55 AM
gmjm66, thanks for your post. On a panel at an FTC conference in DC last month, I mentioned that virtual worlds and mobile social networking are the next frontiers for the online-safety field and have been watching this space in my newsletter for some time (here's the latest news item - search for "Second Life" in the NetFamilyNews/Google search box for more on the Linden Lab worlds, going back several years). Just for clarity, you're referencing only Second Life, but in places it sounds like you're talking about Teen Second Life, which is marketed as being safer for teens. Was your son in the latter? Tx again,
Anne
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Anne Collier
BlogSafety co-director
gmjm66
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From: Illinois, USA
Registered: 12/9/06
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"Second Life" is NOT Teen Safe!

Dec 9, 2006 7:52 AM
[As posted to the comments to Second Life why my son, 15 yrs old, was canceling his account]

My son "Red Dae" was approached by TWO different ADULTS on his second visit. When he complained to one of your adult monitors, he was banned from Second Life. The monitor refused to listen to my son, claimed he was paranoid, and denied that his contact with adults in Teen Second Life was real. Already feeling emotionally violated, your monitor made matters worse, obviously caring more about Second Life's profits (via their paying perv adult members) than a child's well being.

My son returned to Second Life to show me what had happened, and that same "black & white" robot was still in the "Welcome" area. Apparently she did not see us pop back in because she was talking with 3 other adults about my son's interaction with her. Within a minute though, they all saw my son's character standing right there, listening to every word, and the other 3 quickly vanished. NONE of those 4 had "Linden" as a last name to identify them as adults, all were posing as teens. In my son's rage and anger, he used the f-word a few times. Then a Linden-named "mediator" appeared and without the slightest attempt at seeing what the issue was, he kicked my son off. Later we received an email stating he was kicked off for violating the usage agreement. Apparently the usage agreement says you can't swear, but says nothing about being a perv adult hitting on kids, so therefore they don't take any action against them.

So, the reason my son (and I) will NEVER use or recommend this crapware application and environment is because...

1. They have proven that they support and DEFEND the hidden adults in the teen area.

2. Refuse to listen to teens with real issues and complaints. There is NO LEVEL OF ANY SECURITY to protect the kids.

3. Further increase a child's trauma by telling them they are paranoid, and what happened didn't, so as to PROTECT the abuser and label the child as a liar.

4. Lie to each other about what really occurred to cover their own ass, thus spreading lies about the child... c'mon, how cold and callous do you have to be to do that?!

5. To test Second Life's security, I have logged on 3 times, an adult freely able to chat and interact with teens on any topic; proving my child's accusations about the ease of pervs using Second Life to chat with kids. Not only is it EASY, but it allows for adults to buy huge portions of land and build private "homes" for private conversations, and to build places for teen amusement and attraction. Second LIfe is perv heaven!!


Posing as a teen, I still have some land in the teen area and will be building on it as the focus and experiment for an article in a major magazine about child care and safety. I thank my son for bringing Second Life to my attention. My editor believes this will be a huge awakening for parents, as well as for our naive teens, and I expect it to be the source of numerous safety articles about similar web-based games in the future.

My son, nor any of our friends and relatives, will ever be on here unless it is to assist me in my research and exposing all of the dangers of your site to children for a national publication.