Slanderous, sexual photos of my son were posted

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Hi all,

I'm new here so I'm not entirely sure I'm posting in the right forum. Recently it was discovered that my 18 yr old son's photo was uploaded to a site more than 60 times with his full name and captions of a sexual, slanderous and defamatory nature. My son is a Freshman in college and these pictures were shown to him by someone in his dorm. Needless to say, my son is devastated as are my wife and I. We reported this to our local law enforcement but according to them, since my son is now 18 it isn't cyber bullying or a Hate Crime? They said all we have is a Civil case against the person(s) responsible for uploading the photos, which btw we own the copyright to. We then found out that the individual responsible is my son's ex-girlfriend that he broke up with several months ago. He contacted her and she admitted it was her and her college roommate. We met with our attorney who said its a strong case but the process will be at a cost and not just financially. The pictures were removed from the original site by this girl, but all 60 still appear when someone Google searches my son's name. Eventually they will disappear we were told, but we're of course still extremely upset, especially after being told that there isn't any recourse that can hold this girl accountable? Since it was created at her college dorm I was considering contacting the Dean of Students and filing a complaint. We feel so powerless and appreciate any advice. Thank you!
Last Post Mar 6, 2011 9:22 PM by: Vanessa211
Vanessa211
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Re: Slanderous, sexual photos of my son were posted

Mar 6, 2011 9:22 PM
Hi, it is ok to to use the one I signed up with I would love to understand how they did it......thnz again I'm forever grateful.....now I can sleep worry free...
Maureen
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Re: Slanderous, sexual photos of my son were posted

Feb 22, 2011 2:51 PM
Hi Vanessa211, I'm so glad this was resolved! Our Google contact would like your email address so she can pass along a message that explains how they took care of your Google Search removal request. Is it OK to give them your email? (I can use the one you registered with on our site or you can send a different one to my attention at maureen@connectsafely.org.).

Thanks,
Maureen

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Maureen Kochan
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Vanessa211
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Re: Slanderous, sexual photos of my son were posted

Feb 8, 2011 2:37 PM
Hi Maureen,

AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
I just came home from school & checked it O MY GODDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD!!! I can you believe it is gone I mean last night when I check around 7 it was still on there but now from the grace of god it is gone.....im so HAPPY I can sleep
sooooo good!! LORD I got down on my knees & thanked god!!

THANK YOU SO MUCH!!
Maureen
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Re: Slanderous, sexual photos of my son were posted

Feb 8, 2011 10:33 AM
Hi Vanessa, I just did a search in Google Images and couldn't find the pic (either size). Check again - are you still seeing it? If so, send me the URL.
Thanks!
Maureen

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Vanessa211
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Re: Slanderous, sexual photos of my son were posted

Feb 7, 2011 5:07 PM
Hi Maureen,

I just checked the picture & when i typed in my name the picture still shows up but when i click to see it big it doesnt show me.....what do we do now knowing that the picture is still showing up in google when my name is being typed in?? Shouldnt google have took it off??
Vanessa211
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Re: Slanderous, sexual photos of my son were posted

Feb 4, 2011 1:55 PM
Hi Maureen,

Thanks your the best...I will check it MONDAY:)
Maureen
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Re: Slanderous, sexual photos of my son were posted

Feb 4, 2011 8:19 AM
Hi Vanessa, Good - Google has scheduled the image for removal. Let me know if it's not gone by Monday night. Take care,
Maureen

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Maureen Kochan
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Vanessa211
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Re: Slanderous, sexual photos of my son were posted

Feb 3, 2011 1:53 PM
Hi Maureen,

Yes mam thats what im talking about.....how do we fix that?? thnx for the quick response by the way
Maureen
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Re: Slanderous, sexual photos of my son were posted

Feb 2, 2011 4:52 PM
Hi Vanessa, I did a search for [edited-mk] and found the image in Google Image Search. Is that the one you found? (I'll remove your name when you respond.)

Thx,
Maureen

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Maureen Kochan
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Vanessa211
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Re: Slanderous, sexual photos of my son were posted

Feb 2, 2011 3:26 PM
Hi,

I'm sooo happy about the whole page being gone, I dont know how you did it but it but im very Thankful but my only question is sice the page is gone and the cach the picture should come off google too right because you replied back to me saying that the image is gone but I just typed in my 1st and last name and the picture came up and when i click to see it big it came up as a picture by it self and myspace was deleted so what do we do now about the piture still being in googles images should I go to google and do a image removal request and see if they take it off now since the myspace page is gone or will it go away when google crawls the page or is that what you ment by a snippet oro you want my1st & name so you can type it in and see it your self??
Maureen
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Re: Slanderous, sexual photos of my son were posted

Feb 1, 2011 2:23 PM
Hi Vanessa, The cached page has been deleted-finally! The snippet listing that comes up when you google the old URL will still be there until the page is recrawled, but the image is now gone.

Maureen

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Maureen Kochan
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Vanessa211
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Re: Slanderous, sexual photos of my son were posted

Feb 1, 2011 11:12 AM
Hi Maureen,

Thank you so much for all your help and the quick respond to my messages..........:) I will pray that it goes away as planned!!!! I'll get back at you!!!


THANK YOU!!!
Maureen
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Re: Slanderous, sexual photos of my son were posted

Jan 31, 2011 5:53 PM
Hi, Both the profile and the picture will be removed. Let me know if that doesn't happen!
Maureen

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Maureen Kochan
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Vanessa211
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Re: Slanderous, sexual photos of my son were posted

Jan 31, 2011 5:37 PM
Hi Maureen,

Thank you so Much!!! I will tell you when it finally removes it self but my real question is the cached verson of the image gonna be deleted from googles search or just the profile?
Maureen
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Re: Slanderous, sexual photos of my son were posted

Jan 31, 2011 4:27 PM
Hi Vanessa, My Google contact says they'll remove the cached version. Wished it would have worked through the regular channels! Anyway, should be gone within a day or two. Let's just hope another fake profile doesn't pop up - if one does, you'll need to start the reporting process all over, I'm afraid.

Take care,
Maureen

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Maureen Kochan
ConnectSafely community manager
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